Get your own hobbies, 3. Dear sick wife, do take good care of you and have the medicines in time to recover fast. Our life goals and dreams are worlds apart. And my Wife is far from a horrible Wife/person. Divorce and Your Money 3839 McKinney Ave, Suite 155-2063 Dallas, TX 75204 United States My husband, son, and I are going on vacation with my in-laws. But I am sick of her. Getting inside your wife's head. Through counseling, I've learned how to not snap back so often, but I've discovered that even when I confront that awful tone of hers in a peaceful manner, it just makes things worse. Go listen to them. 1. Sending my love for sick wife and hoping you are taking good care of yourself. Needless to say we are still waiting. Sometimes my wife is so mean to me and speaks to me in such a disrespectful and rude tone that I snap. My wife grew up the same way. She left, and had support from grandparents. She is too tired. 4). My wife is sick at the moment and I have heaps of work to do on the computer on my business so I don't have time for spring cleaning. I am 39, she is 52 and we have been married for nearly ten years. "I honestly think that each couple should have a talk before things have ever come to this point," psychologist Nikki Martinez tells Bustle. We … She asks me to do the dishes so I do them. 3). First & foremost let me say that I am far from the perfect Husband. I love her very much. Add to that the fact that we have absolutely nothing in common. My wife has an incurable condition that means we have a limited social life and no sexual intimacy, and I am the sole earner and care for the children. I play guitar; I like it when my wife comes to hear us play. I hope to see you in good health soon at home. She is bad-tempered and even abusive to … We've been married for 3 years & for three years have been waiting for it to "work." Suggestions: 1. 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